My wife watched the video last night and when I told her some of the reactions she said, “Good grief!" Which is same reaction I had. Sexual predation had been covered up for so long that when society started to take notice the pendulum swung from ignorance to paranoia. In today’s climate we have become so jaded that there is no room for sweet and innocent. It has become the Salem witch hunts all over again. Two well known cases of witch hunting, one in California and on in Wenatchee, WA, have ruined a lot of lives for nothing more than trying to care for children. Big Brother has trouble finding men in some areas of the country because they are afraid they will be falsely accused.
One commentator on MJ’s blog said it was wrong in today’s society. What? If is wrong now then it was wrong then. If she meant it could be misinterpreted in today’s society then that would make sense. How anybody could look at this and not see it as a sweet gesture is beyond me. Carrie commented Mike was in the audience, it was before 1000’s of people,kid was not there alone, at least one of his parents was most likely there and if anyone would have a problem with it it would be them. If they have no problem then why should anyone else. Yet people want to sexualize it and make it dirty.
When I read these kinds asinine comments I think of Kelly’s song “You Can’t Win” Kelly has taken a lot more flak from people and the press making stupid & untrue comments than Carrie has. She struck back the only way she could, through this song. So when I read crap about Carrie I just think of these lyrics.
If you go
They say you're following
If you don't
Then you're too good for them
If you smile
You must be ignorant
If you don't - what's your problem?
If you`re down - so ungrateful
And if you're happy - why so selfish?
And you can't win, no
You can't win, no
The one who doesn't quite fit in
Underdressed
Under your skin, oh
A walking disaster
Everytime you try to fly you end up falling out of line
Oh, you can't
You can' win, no
If you're thin
Poor little walking disease
If you're not
They're all screaming obese
If you're straight
why aren't you married yet?
If you're gay why aren't you waving a flag?
If it's wrong, you're nailing it
If it's right, you always miss
You can't win, no
You can't win, no
The one who doesn't quite fit in
Underdressed
Under your skin, oh
A walking disaster
Everytime you try to fly you end up falling out of line
Oh, you can't
You can' win, no
Under your skin, oh
A walking disaster
Everytime you try to fly you end up falling out of line
Oh, you can't
You can' win, no
And you try
You try so hard
But it's written on your heart
And you play
You play the game
But you pay
You pay for it
You can't win, no
You can't win, no
If you speak
You'll only piss 'em off
If you don't
You're another robot
If you stop
They just say you quit
If you don't
You might lose your ****
You can't win, no
You can't win, no
You can't win, no
The one who doesn't quite fit in
Underdressed
Under your skin, oh
A walking disaster
Everytime you try to fly you end up falling out of line
Oh, you can't
You can' win, no.