Farawayhills
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Actually my problem is with the "staying married was the only way to work your problems out" line. Especially coming from Miranda, who grew up in a home often frequented by abused women needing shelter, it doesn't make sense. While I appreciate the notion they were going for (people shouldn't give up on relationships so easily), the way it's worded strikes me as extremely judgmental. Sometimes a relationship just isn't working and it's better for both parties to part ways.
I have no problem with the "obscureness" of the lyrics, which don't strike me as particularly obscure anyway. I may be young, but I'm well aware of what Polaroids, Rand McNallys, and gear shifting on cars ("three on a tree") are. ;-)
For me, I would have liked the song to be a little more personal to Miranda's story. It feels like they got there a bit in the first verse with the "we'd drive all the way to Dallas just to buy an Easter dress" line, but the song as a whole strikes me as simply a list of old things that people can be nostalgic about, without acknowledging that not everything from the past is better than the present and not everything from the present is terrible. I would have appreciated the lyrics more if they were more well-rounded and personal.
As you said, of course the lyrics are better than most of what gets played on country radio these days. That almost goes without saying. But considering how bad most of the songs on country radio are, it's not that hard to be better. ;-) I definitely hold Miranda to a higher standard than, say, Florida Georgia Line, who I just always expect to be terrible. lol
If I'm in the right mood I can enjoy "Automatic," but I have to say I'm looking forward to moving onto the next single and letting this one be a thing of the past. (Ironically.)
Oh, I see what you mean. Sorry I misunderstood before. (I think, though, that that song will not be long lasting enough, nor that line as fundamental to the theme, for it to come to be comparable to the reaction some people felt to "Stand By Your Man". )
When I first heard the line, I thought it was "Saying Mary's on her way to sort your problems out" - whether that was due to expectations of a more assertive Miranda, or simply to the difference in accents, I'm not sure, lol